Are you you?

Life is discovering whats in your soul and listening.Michelle D’avella

Not knowing myself is the thing that I most afraid of. There are always a certain moment when I pause the motion and ask myself. “Do you live your life according to what your soul has told you to?”

I care deeply about what I am doing because I want my actions being align with my true self. After years figure out things about life, I come to realize that I’m happiest when I’m align with my true self.

Don’t think about your life in terms of what other people will think of you, but in terms of what’s best for you and your family. Dan Pedersen

Many of us care so much about what other people think of ourselves. But only a few people willing to dig deeper to their soul and ask “am I being me?”. Of course, I’m not telling you to be a total selfish. You’re free to take their arguments into consideration, but ultimately it’s your own voice that matter the most.

Spend time to get to know yourself. It could be through meditating, journaling, psychology tests, or whatever you prefer to do. You can’t be the best version of yourself without being honest. So be sure to listen to your soul before settling.

But yeah, there will also things like indecision and fear. But now I choose to acknowledge it. Because our greatest fear, most of the time are the paths to our greatest truths. If you cling to your fear, your true self will not be emerged as well.

When you finally found the real you and what you want to do in life, you’ll feel that you worth to be born as yourself. You’ll finally come to understand the real meaning of “don’t live someone else’s life”.

Photo credit : Julia Caesar